Stop Embedded Video from Redirecting? Is it worth it?

So I've looked all over the forum and google and tried some code, but I can't find anything that works. I'm using TubeAce an adult tube plugin to embed videos, but all the sites that allow the embed want the visitors to redirect to their site (of course, that's why they allow you to embed their content). My reasons are:

1. It's annoying as shit, you can't even click pause or full view the video without it sending traffic to their site.
2. It looks spammy, everytime I've been to a porn site…

Stop Embedded Video from Redirecting? Is it worth it?